2. It is nothing to be ashamed of.
People are stupid, including you, but there is no reason to be ashamed of it.
There is at least one perspective to view any person as a stupid person.
Try to make this sink in for a moment.
Have you ever had a nightmare of being naked in public?
Being naked in public means vulnerability and loosing status.
You are constantly reminded about your own situation.
Your illusions about safety and being accepted breaks down into shattered pieces.
In the most horrible moment you are openly displayed just as you are.
You feel shame over being aware of something all people have in common.
Beneath our clothes, we are all naked, vulnerable and without status.
Today people put much effort into appearing smart to others.
Nobody want others to see how stupid they really are.
They often try to avoid it by making other people look stupid.
When they get exposed, they excuse themselves without any appology of what they just did.
They just offended another person and then pulling back into their shell.
I am stupid and know nothing and I am not listening or capable of learning anything about it.
Hey, I already know that you are stupid, do not feel ashamed about it.
Maybe I can tell you something I know and you can tell me something you know.
I see more and more use of language the way we wear clothes.
We use it to cover up instead of learning new things.
It makes you feel everybody are better than you in every possible way.
We use language to attack others and defend ourselves.
Stop and think about this for a while:
What you try to look like does not change what you are.
It is a hopeless struggle you will loose over and over again.
Just give up and spend that energy on the things you want to do.
You know, the things you feel is worth living for.
Contact me if you would like to talk.
